This then reinforces your belief that you can’t attract women. Now, I could try to convince you of all the reasons why you should stop listening to your scumbag brain. Sometimes, you just need to stop overthinking and do your job in romantic pursuit.So to ensure you don’t keep throwing away opportunities, we need to list out what you’re doing wrong.She’s usually giving you an approach invitation — her subtle way of saying, “Come talk to me.” These are your safest opportunities to meet someone with the highest chance of success. They believe you need to have an amazing, one-of-a-kind, hour-long conversation.
If a woman responds to you, she’s deciding that you are a potential mate.
You only need to convey one thing: that meeting up will be a fun, easy going experience.
The underlying idea is you are both evaluating each other as romantic prospects. She knows that if you find her attractive, you want a sexual connection. She’s not going to be surprised like, “You tried to kiss me?!? ” Attempting to kiss her is only going to reveal the truth about how she already feels — it won’t suddenly ruin a potential romantic connection.
Even when a girl says that she’s not ready and turns her cheek, let her know it’s not a big deal.
So they overcompensate and protect themselves by pretending to be unavailable. Then they respond accordingly by acting distant to protect themselves, too. So when you finally invite her to do something, she doesn’t give you a concrete answer.