When it comes to love and romantic prospects, relying on labels helps us categorize the .
Labels alert us to whether we’re safe or doomed—and, they have a convenient way of stacking up for or against that new person we’ve considered clicking on.
He was tall and lean and read every label before buying organic—he was also a serious chain smoker who couldn’t see any contradictions in his so-called healthy lifestyle because he only smoked organic tobacco.
My point: it’s easy enough to call yourself spiritual, but be sure what it means to you without expecting your date’s beliefs to mirror yours.
Even more important, it’s not your definition and label that matters nearly as much as your actions.
Sure, you checked the ‘spiritual’ box on your profile, but does your conversation, outlook and demeanor embody that orientation toward the world?
As a result, dating becomes more of an exploration of profound connection rather than a nerve-wracking process wracked with dread and second-guessing.