Either the guy is trying to see if I’m cool with him not being black, or the guy is trying to see if I’m cool with him being skinny.
Instead of being in the moment and asking about things based on the person we’re with, people come with these dating interview questions that they use on everyone they’ve ever met, and expect sparks to fly with generic inquisitions. I call these annoying dating questions, but they might just be lazy dating questions.
On her blog, Plus Size Princess, Ce Ce Olisa has detailed everything from what it’s like to be the only big black girl in a yoga class (fine, thanks!
If you’re someone who has trouble making small talk on dates, one of my tricks is to start with current things, and go from there.
Meaning: Instead of asking “What do you do for fun? ” and from there, I’ll get to learn what the person enjoys doing in their free time.
I’ll be completely honest: I’ve delved into the wide foray of dating apps.