But for others, they have to date someone many times, maybe even over weeks or months, to know whether there’s chemistry in the air—and they may need to date several people before they finally feel that “click.” If you immediately exclude all other guys or gals from the moment you have your first lunch date with someone until his or her annoying laugh causes you to bolt two months later, you may have to go through several mini-relationships in a row before you’re done. Going on dates with a few different good candidates around the same time helps you find out fast who’s wrong, without forcing you to wait and wait and wait to find out who’s right.
Some people choose to have multiple relationships at once for their whole lives.
If you're thinking of dating multiple women at once, it can be done.
You notice this kind of thing a lot more when your memory is fresh than when you’re comparing your date today to someone you dated six months ago.
It Boosts your Self-Confidence and Hones your First-Date Skills We understand why dating different people simultaneously may seem daunting.
It can be nerve-racking to go on a lot of first dates in a row, especially if you’ve been out of the dating scene for a while (or have never really “dated”).