May want to have complete control of the family money 66. Is often envious of others, or thinks others envy him 68. Expects you to read his mind when he wants something 72.
During my relationship with Gareth I noticed a lot of what I would come to know as "Red Flags" but at the time I didn't recognize them for what they were. Lack of empathy / Inability to put themselves in another's shoes.
Pretty much all 99 Red Flags were evident in Gareth in one way shape or form, some he didn't qualify for, but I would steer clear of anyone who displays even a few of the below Red Flags Trust your gut instincts!!!! - Unable to acknowledge or respond to pain in others that is not clearly visible. ridicule or insult you then tell you its a joke 12. 13."twist" your words, somehow turning what you said against you? Says he hasn't been with a woman in a long time and you are the first he has been interested in 15. Has major Interests in NLP, Seduction Techniques, Psychology 21.
Do not attempt to confront your psychopath, or schedule a group intervention. As much as you might like to warn others about the psychopath… The sad truth is that psychopaths are masters at spinning truth and accusations into counterattacks laser targeted at you and your weaknesses that will leave you wondering what happened and asking, “Why me?
” because you were the “good guy” just trying to keep other people from being hurt; yet now, you are the bad guy.
and run like hell from any man or woman who displays these red flags in their behaviour. Has an abnormal 'startle response' - doesn't jump or startle when we would. Staring / tuning you out / The Predatory Stare / Waking up during the night to see his face over mine staring. Considers their own logic or intellect to be superior to all others. Odd/irrational behaviour / (Placing my lighters in the freezer) 8. Demands knowing where you are if you say no to a date 16. Says he loves you on the first date, or online before you have even met 22. Exhibits unnatural and perplexing behavior — backwards reactions to things 24.