So talk to him about your plans to land a promotion or run a half marathon.
Yeah, it's hot to watch you kick ass, but that kind of drive also indicates passion, which is incredibly alluring to a guy.
That sentiment is echoed by Amber Kelleher, head of Kelleher International, who adds: “What’s hard for women is you don’t know if the guy you just met is married or has a stable job. And as these women spend so much time at work, there is a lack of exposure. They go to the gym in the morning—not a great idea to date someone at the gym. ”“Men are intimidated by high-powered women,” says Kelleher, who has worked with Lady Victoria Hervey and Tia Carrera. Because of the nature of the city itself and working, you have a tougher skin.
If it doesn’t work out, then you have to change schedules or gyms. There’s always an edge.” “People like Martha Stewart’s reputation precedes them,” Kelleher added.
"The key is to keep it a back-and-forth conversation: You share your views, and he shares his," says Wexler.