If he doesn’t come back, you are a stronger and better person. In either case, you will have a more loving relationship with yourself.
Let God, the higher power, the Universe or whatever you believe in bring you the man you’re supposed to be with. If he comes back, you’ll have a more loving and fulfilling relationship.
Caveat: He is not worth getting back with if he uses you, is a freeloader, is verbally, physically and/or emotionally abusive towards you, influences you to do things that are immoral, unethical or illegal, has substance abuse problems, blames others and never takes responsibility for himself, cheats, lies or can’t be trusted. You’ll have set a higher standard for how he loves and treats you.
What does help is learning from your mistakes and realizing a few important things about men.
If the man you were dating pulled away after you said or did something, you need to remember that this man liked you and was attracted to you for some reason.
And as much as it might seem like his feelings have changed forever towards you, there’s something you should realize: A man’s feelings can change very quickly, whether you want them to or not. most women don’t handle this reality about men, dating, and relationships very well at all.