If you take a Chinese woman’s virginity you are giving her a very strong indication that the relationship is headed toward marriage.
While the value of the gift is not so important, a small gift that shows you are an attentive and caring person is polite and thoughtful.
A simple long stemmed rose is an excellent and ideal romantic gift, unless, of course, you know that she prefer lilies instead.
While most Americans don’t hesitate to introduce their new boyfriend or girlfriend to mom and dad, regardless of the seriousness of the couple, in the Chinese culture it signifies a permanent relationship and can even be considered the equivalent of an engagement announcement.
If you are really ready to meet her parents, do bring a gift.
In this case, the more valuable the better, but try to bring something that has special significance to them by asking your girlfriend what they like.