Sure, you both might be seeing other people, but neither of you lies or hides things. Which means you sense that you’ve got a connection here, and neither of you wants to jeopardize it.
And just because your relationship started with bed-buddies …
If you have that easy mesh when you’re in the sack, you’ve got a firm foundation for a boyfriend relationship with him.
The biggest mistake you can make when working on your FWB and trying to make him your steady guy is to . What happens when you don’t stay available for other guys is that you will have flipped a switch in your mind from “Meh… So when you have a backup guy in your life, you’ll be much more confident and he would be in trying it out. Another reason why you want to keep seeing other guys: Sometimes you’ll find yourself settling for a guy who’s a pretty candidate for your affection.
You probably told yourself that you can just keep this little arrangement nice and safe for you both. I don’t care” to “Now I want him.” And he WILL sense this. Most of the time a man experiences the complete opposite – a woman who pounces on him and wants him to jump into a relationship as soon as humanly possible. But you’ll rationalize that he’s “not that bad” the longer you’re with him.
Now, I want to show you 3 steps to turn a guy from a friends with benefits into a of the people in it.